My personal blog about how to save marriage and how effective The Magic Of Making Up is in helping to save relationships.
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Is your marriage in trouble? If so, do you know who you can approach for help to save your marriage? People who are facing marital problems can feel depress and this can be dangerous because serious depression can cause the victim to harbour suicidal thoughts. If you cannot find a solution in your own head, get external help from someone else. Help yourself and your loved ones before it’s too late! Read the rest of this entry
As compared to 2 decades ago, the divorce rate recently has been on the increase, amounting to over 50% of marriages. Is it so difficult to save marriage now? This is probably because many couples do not try to understand each other well enough before they get married and after marriage, there is just so much distraction out there that it may be hard to stay committed to one partner if the bond had not been strong from the start. Read the rest of this entry
It is not going to be an easy situation when you have cheated on him and you are wondering how to save your marriage. You have to understand that you have inflicted grievous pain on him and be prepared that there is a great possibility you might not be able to salvage the relationship. If that happens, you will have to learn to move on. Read the rest of this entry
Divorces are on the increase each year and one main reason is because of infidelity. Another major problem is due to the lack of communication. However, marriages do not have to end up that way. There are definitely ways to save a relationship if both of you still love each other very much and put in effort to make the marriage work. Thus, if you want to save your marriage, the following tips can help you.
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If your marriage is on the rocks but you love your spouse and do not want a break-up, then you are in desperate need of some stop divorce advice. Nevertheless, it might make you feel better to learn that you are not the only person facing this problem and that such problems can be solved. So is it possible to save your marriage? Read the rest of this entry
To save marriage, you should abide by the following 6 rules. You may be wondering why does a marriage need a set of rules? To understand this, first consider the situation when you take part in a game. You are always given a set of rules before the game starts. This is vital to your success because you have to know how to play the game.
However, when a wife and a husband are thrown together and expected to play the marriage game well, there is no rule to follow and no experience to fall back on! This can be intimidating as couples struggled to learn the rules as they played the game at the same time. Even when their relationship is clearly facing some crisis, they may not be aware that they are in need of help to save marriage.
Some couples are able to learn the rules faster and so they survived the game while some may decide that the game is not their cup of tea and decide to call it quits. There are also others whom you can still see to be playing the same game every day despite the fact that they are clearly not interested in the game anymore and there is no element of fun left for them. However, they are still playing the game for old time’s sake and just wish secretly that lives can get better.
However, a marriage does not have to be that way if only you were given a set of rules on what to do and what not to do when you decide to enter the game. Both partners should then be made to understand the parts that had to play and vow to abide by the rules in order to make their relationship work. So what are the 6 rules that should have been given to you on the day you signed your marriage certificate?
Rule #1: Vow to go through thick and thin together
As both you and your partner are busy building a better life for your future, you may tend to neglect each other sometimes. Or when you are newly married, there may be problems that both of you have to face as a couple as marriage is actually a union of two families. It does not involve you alone.
Therefore, it is vital that you vow to stay together no matter what happens. It is only in this way that you can resolve all problems and both of you will be able to achieve all you want together. Ask any couples who had been married for over 2 decades and they are likely to tell you the same thing!
Rule #2: Practise tolerance
Before marriage, everything seems so sweet and perfect. However, since you are now living together, you start to see the flaws in each other and things do not seem to be so perfect anymore! Bear in mind that when you love someone you should love the other person’s flaws as well as his or her traits. As such, rule number 2 is to practise tolerance and you will have a more lasting marriage.
Rule #3: Allow your partner some space
By giving each space, I am not just talking about utilizing separate cupboards for your clothing but more in terms of allowing each other some private time. Loving your partner does not equate to seeing and being with each other 24 hours a day. There may be hobbies that your spouse will want to pursue as well as moments when they would want to be alone to do their own things.
Rule #4: Find time to travel
Taking time off to do something different occasionally is good for both the mind and the soul. You may be surprised your love can be rekindled when you get away to somewhere quiet and romantic, even if it is just for the weekends. This allows you to add on your sweet memories which are likely to be the things that get you two to stick together in times of crisis.
Rule#5: Voice your opinions, not argue
Of course everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion but voicing opinion is not the same as arguing. It is true to say that all marriages will have some forms of arguments but if you do not consider each other’s feelings, things can get ugly. It may be good to just walk out of the room if you see that your partner is too heated up to listen. Take some time to cool off first before you make any attempts to work things out again.
Rule #6: Never go to bed angry
It is always a bad idea to go to bed angry as the tension might just build up, especially if both of you tend to be stubborn and refuses to give in or listen to each other. On the other hand, if the hour is already late and your argument does not seem to be getting you anywhere, then allowing a cool off period is better than fighting it out.
Do remember though to consider your spouse’s likes and dislikes. You might want to surprise your spouse with a specially prepared breakfast the next morning. No, that is not giving in but showing your partner that no matter what happens, you still love him or her.
The above are just 6 rules to serve as a guide to help you save marriage. Feel free to make changes as and when necessary because you are the best person to know what fits your relationship best. However, the one point to remember is that having a lasting marriage takes time and effort and if you really feel that you need help, then seek help early. Don’t wait till it is too late!
If you are asking for help to “save my marriage“, chances are your marriage is on the rocks and you should something about it before it is too late! Since you are looking for help, it shows that you still love your spouse and do not wish to see your marriage die. If that is the case, here are 3 easy tips to help you save marriage. Read the rest of this entry
If you are trying to save marriage, here are 4 simple tips to help you. Best thing about them is that they are not difficult to carry out and they will not cost you a bomb either. In fact, some may even think that these are common sense steps that anyone could do. However, a lot of couples do not apply them in their lives, not even to stop divorce. Read the rest of this entry
It is never a good thing to have discovered that your husband is cheating on you and you must be going through a traumatic period now. Lots of different emotions are running through your mind and you are likely to be confused over what you should do. However, it is vital that you consider carefully whether you still want to save marriage or let go of the relationship and move on with your life. How do you decide? Read the rest of this entry
As a woman, it is important that you understand why men cheat on their spouses because if you have just caught your spouse cheating, it will help you to decide whether you want to save your relationship and start life afresh with him or to let go and move on with your life. You might feel that some reasons are forgivable and decide to give him a second chance. Read the rest of this entry
If you are feeling desperate because you are trying to save marriage alone, do not despair. There are many others in the same boat as you and such cries for help can be heard from both men and women alike. This is probably because they have made the same common mistake; entering a relationship with unrealistic expectations of fulfillment and happiness. Read the rest of this entry
Are you living an unhappy marriage? If you think you are not as happy in your relationship as you should be, you are not alone. Surveys carried out have shown that not everybody is happy in their marriages but that is also a very subjective issue because it really depends on how you measure happiness. Read the rest of this entry
If you still love your spouse and want to get back together, is it possible? Right now, you must be hurting badly because breaking up is indeed a difficult thing to go through. However, if you want to stop marriage from divorce, you will have to be persistent. Read the rest of this entry
Before you decide to give your marriage and go through the divorce procedures, if you have children involved, you should really consider the effects of divorce on children first. There are many couples who wrongly and selfishly feel that marriage is just between the two adults so they have the right to decide whether they want to remain together or move on with their lives. However, that is fine only if you do not have any children. Otherwise, put yourselves in their shoes and consider their feelings first before you take any drastic measures. Read the rest of this entry
Are you asking yourself is your marriage in trouble? If you are, you should look into taking some actions before it is too late. However, it is not possible to save marriage alone because it takes two hands to clap. In order for a marriage to work, both of you have to work at nurturing it together. Therefore, if you want to save your relationship, then you will have to gain the support and cooperation of your spouse. In order to do that, you have to develop a strong bond and rapport with your partner. Read the rest of this entry
